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Grindingand its 15 million monthly active users, is drown in ads while pushing expensive sales to consumers. (In February, as part of its “gaI” restructuring, the company he announced new monthly subscription rate at $500.) Sniffies was loved for cruisers until seismic reaction in April to Match Group’s $100 million investment raised concerns that another luxury space could be absorbed into the dating giant.
As public backlash against rogue software grows, a group of tech entrepreneurs are scrambling to meet demand with privacy-conscious, community-driven alternatives.
Calum Bowden, who posts under the internet persona @donjackoghue, was unveiled MeetMarket the month of March. Currently only available as a web app, MeetMarket includes all the basic features of your typical hookup app—customizable profiles, a grid of nearby users—with one major difference. It was built with a decentralized identity system, meaning that MeetMarket does not store users’ emails, passwords or personal information. Users store everything on their device, giving them full control and ownership of their data and how it’s shared. Messages on the platform are end-to-end encrypted, and Bowden says it will always be ad-free, even for non-paying members. (A monthly membership costs €12, or $13.99.)
“Decentralization and data privacy make a lot of sense for low-income people in general, and especially in a hostile legal environment or in the United States right now, where you don’t know which digital systems are most attractive to you,” says the 34-year-old PhD student in Berlin who studies the sociology of technology and organization.
Within the first 48 hours of MeetMarket’s launch on March 24, more than 12,000 people had signed up, and about 60,000 people have used it since then. The program averages 5,000 visitors per week, according to Bowden, although there aren’t many similar activities in the same cities. “It’s become more social than necessary to run a fast relationship.” But regular meetings still take place, he says. “Midwest jockeys are eating to meet the market,” one user specified on X.
Bowden didn’t expect the public reaction to Sniffies just weeks after its launch. Still, the timing couldn’t have been more tragic. “When Sniffies announced their investment from Match Group, I said, how are they fueling my fire?” he asks. “This is the model in which venture capital leads. This is exactly why these economic models of technology are so bad, because they essentially force the improvement of the digital platform.” Snifies did not immediately respond to a request for comment.
A self-described “conspirator”, Bowden is the founder of Believea non-profit organization that works as a sort of incubator to produce prototype ideas “as a critique of the technology and the status quo,” he says. With MeetMarket, he wanted to create an app that gave users more agency over their experience without limiting it.
Sometimes it can seem like Big Dating wants people to believe it’s the only answer to their dating woes—Bumble CEO Whitney Wolfe Herd he recently told Axios that there is no longevity in niche programs-but the opposite is proving the truth as well, as people look for more specific and interested in their online dating experience.
“Gay men have different ethnicities, subcultures, aesthetics, and different ways they want to be seen,” says Justin Finnegan, a 35-year-old Toronto software engineer who started last year. Chunkra gay hookup app that has attracted bears, chubs, babies and lovers despite being for all gay men.
